Tips to Spice Things Up in the Bedroom

Each day in a relationship, there’s always something new to learn about your partner. For your relationship to flourish, it’s vital to understand what satisfies your partner mentally, physically, emotionally, and sexually. Spicing up things in the bedroom is a great way to please your partner and also gain insight on how to fulfill their sexual desires or fantasies. Here are a few tips on how to spice things up in the bedroom. 

Pay Attention to Your Partner 

In any relationship, it is necessary to understand your partner’s love language. For example, if your partner loves physical touch, don’t hesitate to shower them with kisses, cuddles, and hugs. Satisfying your partner through their love language can increase their body temperature and put them in the mood, which helps spice up things in the bedroom. 

Furthermore, it is vital to pay attention to your partner in the bedroom. Take a look at how their body reacts to your touch, kiss, or sexual gestures when performing in the bedroom. A great way to note this is by paying close attention to their facial expression or sounds. Also, when you get comfortable, you can even ask your partner about their sexual desires, or what you can do better in the bedroom to satisfy them sexually. Altogether, doing this will help spice things up in the bedroom and take your relationship to the next level. 

Give Couple Massages 

Couple massages are a great form of intimacy and a great way to spice things up in the bedroom. Try giving your partner a massage with their favorite oil, starting in the shoulders and upper back area. Slowly begin to work your way down your partner's spine and pay close attention to how their body is reacting to your touch. You can even add soft kisses and hugs to set the mood to increase your partner's sense of enjoyment. Make sure to take turns while gently exploring each other’s bodies. 

Don’t Rush the Foreplay 

The purpose of foreplay is to warm the body up through lubrication before intercourse. For this reason, it is critical not to rush foreplay before sex. If your partner isn’t fully aroused, they may not be in the mood to have sex, or they won’t enjoy themselves during sex. All in all, this is why you should take the time to understand how to please your partner. Don’t be embarrassed to point your partner to the areas that excite or stimulate your body sexually. Ultimately, taking your time with foreplay creates an enjoyable sexual experience for both parties.